How many meanings does the word "friend" has...?

( I know this topic maybe offensive, so I apologize to you before I proceed...)
( I know this topic maybe stupid, so please ignore my stupidity of posting this...)
( I know this topic maybe not good, however I still wanna make my feeling on public...)

ほんとうにごめなさい
許してください
m(_ _)m *bowing*


Can anyone tell me...

What are friend...?
What are friend actually for?
...... Why are they called "friend"?

I know this is a very sensitive topic, but...
... I just wanna know that ...
....... are they a companion?......or a tool...?

Why did they exist?
Or more likely to be...
Why should they exist...?

Aren't friend just bringing us sadness?
...... They might get you involve in illogical and complex relations......

Aren't they just bringing you into trouble?
...... They might get you involve in social matters and fight......

Aren't they just bringing you problems?
...... They might order you to do their work......

Aren't they just teaching you bad things?
...... They might get you involve in drug addicts and smoking......


Even though friends can bring happiness to you,
.......... but does that ‘happiness’ contain ‘trust’?
Even though that ‘happiness’ contains ‘trust’,
.......... but how long can they last?

The more happiness you have from your friends,
the more sadness you’ll gain later…

They will only disappoint you if ‘trust’ is not in your friend…
...... Moreover, if ‘trust’ is not in yourself,
you will also not achieve a true ‘trust’ from your friend…

If ‘trust’ doesn’t lies within both,
both will ended up in sad ending…

... Sometimes,
a friend who is close to you
might be the one who does not understand you.
... Sometimes,
a friend who hates you
is the one who really understands you,
as they see your ‘real’ you.

Even though friends can helps you in troubles,
.......... but until when can they help you?

Can they really take care of your trouble…?
Since your friends also have their own trouble to take care of.

If they can,
... do they do it from the bottom of their heart…?
Since they will also ‘wandering’ in their own problems.

Even though friends can help you to figure out your problem,
.......... but will it be perfect like what you wish for?
... Same applies to problem…
can they really resolve your problem…?
...... Since they also have their own problem,
which might be even worse than you…
They maybe make you as their tool to solve their problems, or vice versa…

Even though friends can teach you good things,
.......... but how long can we remain good?
Or more likely to say, how long can your friend remain ‘good’?

They may teach you good morals,
...... but that doesn’t mean that their ‘real’ is good.
This is also one of the factors will makes you disappointed…
In the end, ‘trust’ is still the main theme of the ‘friend’.

... to be continue ...